"If she doesn't mind my living in seclusion, I would be happy to have her as a companion. But if she does find it objectionable, I wish to ask the old woman to take her in as her adopted daughter and find her a good husband. I will provide her dowry.",Jia Yin heard that her stepfather had this in mind, she was both happy and sad.,The lord flung open his long robe and sat down, raising a hand to pour himself a cup of warm tea. He pushed it toward her and replied, "We married because we were happy with each other. What does it matter if we don't follow the customary rules for our wedding"。